Category: Healing
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Addicted to Sex with Beautiful Women
by Barry Kerr A good friend recently told me he had come to the conclusion that he had a life-long sexual addiction to strikingly beautiful women, and it’s created problems all his life. Indeed, Dave, a handsome 64 year old, has had a number of sexual partners over the years, including three wives, each quite…
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Addicted to Arguing?
by Barry Kerr Like a good argument? I don’t mean a fight. I mean a good intellectual, logical argument. The kind that Socrates would approve of. If your answer is “yes”, then congratulations; you’re probably smarter than most others around you. Or at least you feel like it. It doesn’t take much to pull some…
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Is Your Life Story Even True?
by Barry Kerr and Kristine Gay Do you talk to yourself? Who doesn’t, right? The only people who take allot flak about this are the ones who do it out loud. And even some of them are tolerated, if it’s only momentary and doesn’t turn into too much drama. Yes, we all do it, but…
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Are You Ready To Face Your Demons?
Individual Healing and Growth Retreats: a new model by Barry Kerr and Kristine Gay, LCSW In the long evolution of human consciousness, it’s harvest time! People are awakening to the experience (not just the belief) of who or what they are; spiritual beings in physical form. At this time, the synergy of collective karma makes…
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Arguing – an addiction?
by Barry Kerr (This is a revised version of an article I published in Natures Pathways magazine in January, 2014 and previously published on this blog.) Like a good argument? I don’t mean an emotional fight. I mean a good intellectual, logical argument. The kind that Socrates would approve of. If your answer is “yes”,…
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Time alone — A love story
By Barry Kerr and Kristine Gay Ever notice how sometimes, when alone, you long to be with someone and sometimes, with someone, you can’t wait to be alone? It’s a natural rhythm we all feel, and as with most things, requires balance. Yet, there are times in life when you can experience such a prolonged…
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Experiencing the Divine – We are all Mystics
by Barry Kerr and Kristine Gay In everyone, there is a mystic who is longing to return to the essence and oneness of divine, unconditional love, or to put it in religious terms, come home to God. Some people experience temporary moments of such bliss. Some maintain it day to day. Some only feel the…
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Hidden Beliefs
by Barry Kerr and Kristine Gay Believe it or not, your beliefs determine your destiny. Sometimes, this is obvious. For example, if you don’t believe you can write a book, then how would you? But it’s the hidden and emotionally formed core beliefs that have a more profound, persistent impact. These are the beliefs you…
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When Is Self-Doubt Too Much?
by Barry Kerr How do you know if your self-doubt is too much? Consider your level of confidence. A significant lack of confidence is driven by self-doubt and robs you of the ability to make decisions, take action and create the life you want. Indeed, we’ve all known people who seem frozen by self-doubt. It…
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Happiness Is An Inside Job
by Barry Kerr and Kristine Gay How can you have a happier life? Ongoing happiness requires that we not only understand how to proactively create happy moments, which everybody does at times, but also achieve a level of self-awareness and skill to be able to create an abundance of those happy moments, on a continuing…