Tag: Healing
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Addicted to Sex with Beautiful Women
by Barry Kerr A good friend recently told me he had come to the conclusion that he had a life-long sexual addiction to strikingly beautiful women, and it’s created problems all his life. Indeed, Dave, a handsome 64 year old, has had a number of sexual partners over the years, including three wives, each quite…
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Addicted to Arguing?
by Barry Kerr Like a good argument? I don’t mean a fight. I mean a good intellectual, logical argument. The kind that Socrates would approve of. If your answer is “yes”, then congratulations; you’re probably smarter than most others around you. Or at least you feel like it. It doesn’t take much to pull some…
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Is Your Life Story Even True?
by Barry Kerr and Kristine Gay Do you talk to yourself? Who doesn’t, right? The only people who take allot flak about this are the ones who do it out loud. And even some of them are tolerated, if it’s only momentary and doesn’t turn into too much drama. Yes, we all do it, but…
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Are You Ready To Face Your Demons?
Individual Healing and Growth Retreats: a new model by Barry Kerr and Kristine Gay, LCSW In the long evolution of human consciousness, it’s harvest time! People are awakening to the experience (not just the belief) of who or what they are; spiritual beings in physical form. At this time, the synergy of collective karma makes…
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Arguing – an addiction?
by Barry Kerr (This is a revised version of an article I published in Natures Pathways magazine in January, 2014 and previously published on this blog.) Like a good argument? I don’t mean an emotional fight. I mean a good intellectual, logical argument. The kind that Socrates would approve of. If your answer is “yes”,…
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Managing Your Emotions – 3 Things NOT To Do
by Barry Kerr and Kristine Gay How good are you at managing your emotions? Pretty good? That might be a problem. In western culture, most of us have been handicapped by a profound misunderstanding of the function of emotions. In fact, emotional dysfunction is epidemic, even among the mentally bright and materially abundant. Try this…
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3 Ways Successful Couples Do Better
When Good Communication Skills Aren’t Enough By Barry Kerr and Kristine Gay All kinds of wonderful books and workshops teach good communication skills and tools. How many of these do you practice? Respect timing. Ask permission or schedule a time. Talk in turns. Give your partner chance to speak. Use “I” statements. Using the word…
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Initiation in The Great Pyramid! – a personal story.
by Barry J Kerr (This story really happened to me in August of 1984, exactly as told. I wrote this back then.) Prelude There it was, before me, rising majestically out of the infinite white sands of the Sahara desert, towering over the green foliage of the narrow Nile valley, as it has for probably…
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Time alone — A love story
By Barry Kerr and Kristine Gay Ever notice how sometimes, when alone, you long to be with someone and sometimes, with someone, you can’t wait to be alone? It’s a natural rhythm we all feel, and as with most things, requires balance. Yet, there are times in life when you can experience such a prolonged…
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Hidden Beliefs
by Barry Kerr and Kristine Gay Believe it or not, your beliefs determine your destiny. Sometimes, this is obvious. For example, if you don’t believe you can write a book, then how would you? But it’s the hidden and emotionally formed core beliefs that have a more profound, persistent impact. These are the beliefs you…