When working with singles to improve the quality of your relationship experiences you are creating, we start by asking you to first commit to taking ownership and responsibility for your self. How do you talk to yourself? How compassionate are you with yourself? How do you care for yourself? How do you hold yourself accountable?
From there, we can begin to explore the dynamics of how you experience others in relationships and create new relationships..
We hold you in a non-judgmental, loving light, that recognizes the good and loving intentions that stem from your soul and the souls of others to whom you relate. Our way is a gentle firmness that invokes honesty, goodness and humor. Ultimately, our commitment is to help you to do the same for yourself and for others even as you experience conflicts and challenges.
Progress is measured by your ability and willingness to create new, meaningful, credible, authentic intentions in your current relationships with friends, family and peers and see positive changes in your experience. Further progress can be seen as you begin to draw new, more authentic relationships into your life. You’ll know it when it happens!
In the process, we employ a variety of tools, teachings and experiential opportunities. We lean heavily on mind-body processes that get you in touch with your authentic self, your deep feelings and knowings. This can be quiet meditative process or a very active and expressive process. Sometimes you will work with both of us and sometimes you will work individually with one of us. Sometimes you will be by yourself. Through it all, we are trained to create a container of unconditional love, holding you in the highest regard, with divine acceptance and safety for whatever your soul needs to bring forth into the experience for your own growth, highest good and well-being.
This work assists you to uncover mental insights and awarenesses of yourself and others; new ways to think and communicate. Pain from our past really points to a need for healing around whatever those stories may represent. Until there is healing, it is difficult to move forward. Therefore, we will be encouraging you to let go of much that is mental (Don’t worry, we’ll let you know when that time has come), to stay focused in your feelings and body. We’ve learned that this is the best way to accelerate healing and insight and it cuts through years of therapy.
As layers of hurt and misunderstanding are removed, you will find it becomes easier to let go of the past and to envision new ways of creating the future for yourself and for your relationships. We use many practical tools to help you tap into and stay in your conscious awareness and be more creative in your choices. It actually feels fun!
From this new point of strength and clarity in your self, you will then find it more rewarding to explore the dynamics of how you can relate to others in authentic, creative ways, that at the very least keep you safe, and at other times allow for synergy and creativity that solves problems and generates deep connectedness and intimacy..